My mate will be warmer more often than cold, she will know herself and want to share herself with me, from "How did it go today" to the deeper stuff. She doesn?t have to work outside the home, but of course she may. I am looking for a committed marriage. Most likely, she will be younger, probably 20 to 35, but maybe younger maybe older, and so I am happy to have more kids. She will probably be ethnically different from me, even from another country. She may know books, but her self knowledge comes from her life experience. She will love me for the good in me and will allow me to mirror her goodness to her. She will respect and strongly and vocally admire my professional activities, and be grateful that I provide for her and the family, even if she also is a professional. She can accept my very intense and intimate feelings for her, and return them as well. She wants to receive my sexual love and to return it to me with the same intensity, frequency, and variety that I want her; hopefully, there is a flavor of mysticism or tantric quality to her sexuality. She will anchor the home and the kids. She will be totally devoted to me and our family. Also, she will want to have fun.