both broad and deep, but with a sense of humor, especially about myself!! I am highly educated, a real intellectual, "highbrow" aesthetic interests, but still into most of the "guy" stuff, building things, watching sports, and working out. Music from classical, jazz, rock, "world beat", just all types; a sucker for anything highly romantic; warm and compassionate, but realistic; advanced degrees in both clinical psych and philosophy, but also worked in several trades, managed construction, developed residential and commercial real estate; personality blends these. Love children. Really enjoy my work, usually work 60 hrs per wk. A warm, deep, extremely intimate (in every sense) relationship is essential for me. I very much value intimacy in relationships, at all stages, with very deep sharing, of every kind. Can be emotionally intense, and especially in love making. Able to dissolve boundaries, but then re-establish them, as appropriate. Acknowledge, regret hurting people in the past, but don't dwell on it. I want to take care of my children and teach them to take care of themselves. Strong interest and appreciation in other cultures, ethnicities. I want to bring love and positive things into the lives of others.
Oh, almost any setting, but conversation that is deep, genuine, and allows us to express feelings that will build to something more passionate, romantic, and erotic in the weeks following. I could say dinner at the open restaurant, top of Lebua Tower in Bangkok, or coffee at any Starbuck's anywhere. All of that is just background scenery. It's the feeling that matters.
Truly?? World peace Universal tolerance and love for all folks. Don't want to seem corny, but really, Can you think of anything better?
Can I double dip? Okay, just as much, a deeply intense, spiritually, emotionally, and erotically powerful relationship with my lifetime lover that keeps changing, but only gets deeper, until we part this world.
What would not?? Start with, Do you know Buxtehude? Baroque German composer? Or before that? Medieval chants. Contemporary "world beat", Clapton, of course, delta blues, Count Basie, MnM, Ludwig VB, Indigo Girls, Deva Dip, Mozart, Andes flute music, Rampage from Canada, whatever
